Children are a great gift from Almighty Allah to all parents.
Parents must think of their children as such treasures that the all the
wealth and material resources are worthless as when compared to one�s
children. We, as parents, should thank Almighty Allah for blessing us with
children whether they are boys or girls. Today, it is quite
disheartening to
see that some parents rejoice when the newborn child is a male and show their
dissatisfaction when the child is a female. But, this should not be the
attitude. Islam does not condone this type of behaviour, as such was the
manner of the parents in the time of ignorance.
Daughters are without doubt a great blessing from Almighty
Allah. They are a means of salvation and a path to Jannah for their parents.
The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) has stated that when a boy is
born, then he brings one Noor (light) and when a girl is born, then she
brings two Noors. It has been narrated in a Hadith that the Holy Prophet
(sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) has stated that if parents are kind and
generous towards their daughters, then they will be so close to the Holy Prophet
(sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) in Jannah, like one finger is to the next.
The
Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) has also stated that the person
who is faced with hardship due to his daughters, and makes Sabr (is patient),
then his daughters will be a Purdah (curtain) between him and Hell.
The crux of one narration states that one who loves his
daughters and withstands the hardship of grooming and getting them married,
then Almighty Allah makes Jannah Waajib (compulsory) on him and keeps him
protected from the Fire of Hell.
Hazrat Khwaja Uthman Haaroni (radi Allahu anhu), the
Peer-o-Murshid of Khwaja-e-Khwajegaan, Hazrat Sheikh Khwaja Ghareeb Nawaaz
(radi Allahu anhu), states: "Daughters are a gift from Almighty Allah.
Those parents who are kind towards them, then Almighty Allah is generous
towards such parents. Those who are merciful to their daughters, Almighty
Allah is Merciful towards them." The great Saint also said, "When a
girl is born to a family, then between the parents and Hell, there shall be a
distance of five hundred years."
It has been stated that when parents rejoice at the birth of a
daughter, this is greater than making Tawaaf of the Kaaba seventy times.
Muslims should also remember that the family of the Holy Prophet Muhammad
(sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) is from his beloved daughter Sayyidah Fatima
Zahra (radi Allahu anha).
Dear brothers and sisters, rejoice on the birth of your
daughters, love and guide them and give them that which is due to them from
your belongings. Do not deprive them of their inheritance as they also have
say in this.
Remember! Daughters are a blessing and not a burden.
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